Fulfilling the Catholic Church's Call to Penance and Repentance

in the Modern World

The Confraternity of Penitents

"You shall love the Lord your God with your whole heart, with your whole soul, and with all your mind, (and) you shall love your neighbor as yourself." (Jesus's words as recorded in Matthew 22:37-38)

Monthly Newsletter for the Confraternity of Penitents

SAINT OF THE MONTH

Saint Gianna Beretta Molla

(1922-1962)

Born the tenth of thirteen children, Gianna aspired to be a physician and began her study of medicine in Milan, Italy. Receiving a medical diploma in 1949, she became a pediatrician and enjoyed treating children. In 1954, she married Pietro Molla, an engineer, and with him had three children whom they raised lovingly in the Catholic faith.

When Gianna was pregnant with her fourth child, Gianna developed a tumor on her uterus. She asked that the tumor only be removed and the child's life spared. Complications ensued and Gianna knew that her life could be in danger. Nevertheless, she continued the pregnancy, asking doctors to make sure that her baby survived. Gianna died when her baby, also named Gianna, was seven days old.

Saint Gianna, in the small trials of everyday life, intercede for us so that we may develop the courage to lay down our lives for others. Amen.


QUOTE FROM SCRIPTURE

"Woman, behold your son. Son, behold your Mother." (John 19: 26-27)

Jesus spoke these words from the Cross to His Mother and to Saint John the Evangelist. In them, He gave the Blessed Mother to humanity to be our Mother. Gianna Beretta Molla understood the love of a mother who would have preferred to see herself die rather than her child. While the Blessed Mother could not make this substitution, Gianna did. Her mother's love for her child, and her deep faith in Christ, combined to make Gianna's sacrifice of her own life not only possible but effected with peaceful love.


QUOTE FROM A SAINT

"This time it will be a difficult delivery, and they may have to save one or the other -- I want them to save my baby."

Gianna Beretta Molla told this to her family before giving birth to her fourth child. At her own request, she laid down her life for her baby. A mother can have no greater love.


BIRTHDAYS

A Happy Birthday to:

 

Mariah D 5/3

Douglas N 5/5

Bob B 5/6

Margaret E 5/11

Ameil K 5/11

Suzanne P 5/13

Mary Kathleen A 5/16

Richard C 5/19

Helmut H 5/20

Monica U 5/22

Lucy F 5/23

Brian H 5/24

Kathleen D 5/25

Brett C 5/26

Wanda O 5/28

Adrian S 5/30 

 


FUNDS

The Confraternity of Penitents requires no dues from its membership. However, there are expenses to be met (about $200 monthly) and we appreciate your donations toward them. We also have an Alms Fund for needy members. If you wish your contribution to go toward the Alms Fund, please so specify.

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Spiritual Advisors:  Fr. Martin Mary Fonte, FI; Dom Julian Stead, OSB; Sister Eugenia Brady, SJC; Father David Engo, FBM

Convert Contacts:

Deacon Joseph Pasquella and Karen Sadock

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May God bless you and let us pray for one another!


The Lord's Prayer

by J. J. Tissot

1899

"Repent and believe the Good News!"

Penance means conversion. The Confraternity of Penitents is a world wide private Catholic association of the faithful, completely loyal to our Pope and the Magisterium.

Our Rule of Life has been reviewed by our bishop and recognized in these words: "I wish to affirm my support of the Confraternity of Penitents (CFP), specifically its members' commendable efforts to live according to the First Rule of the Third Order of Saint Francis of 1221, as outlined in the CFP's own Constitutions."

(Bishop Thomas Tobin, Diocese of Providence RI, 11 February 2009)

 Members of the Confraternity of Penitents live this Rule in their own homes, devoted to prayer, penance, fasting, conversion, and works of mercy modeled on Jesus Christ and inspired by the lives and teachings of

St. Francis,

St. Dominic,

St. Therese,

St. Benedict,

St. Augustine,

St. Ignatius,

and all the saints, most especially Mary, the Mother of God, who lived a life of true penance (conversion) in perfect union with our Lord.

May Our Lady and all the saints intercede for all who wish to embrace a life of penance, anywhere in the world, so that the grace of God will assist them to obtain every virtue necessary for a life of holiness and surrender to the Will of God! Amen.

PRAYER OF PENITENTS "Most High, Glorious God, enlighten the darkness of my mind, give me right faith, a firm hope and perfect charity, so that I may always and in all things act according to Your Holy Will. Amen." (Saint Francis's prayer before the San Damiano Crucifix)


MISSION OF PENITENTS "Go and repair My House which, as you can see, is falling into ruin." (The message given to St. Francis in a voice from the San Damiano Crucifix.)


ACTION OF PENITENTS To pray for God's specific direction in one's life so that, through humbly living our Rule of Life, each penitent may help to rebuild the house of God by bringing love of God and neighbor to his or her own corner of the world.

NO GREATER LOVE

"There is no greater love than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends." (John 15:13)

Monthly Newsletter for

All Who Wish to Do Penance (Experience Conversion) in the

CONFRATERNITY OF PENITENTS

May 2012

Have you read our other on line, monthly publications (Monthly Letter to All Penitents; Following Francis, Following Christ; and Repair God's House)? Find them by following this link.

 

For security reasons, penitents have requested that we no longer publish their last names on the internet.

Letter from One Who Serves the CFP

The “Third Secret of Fatima”

I will be focusing on the first paragraph pertaining to the Angel of God:

"The third part of the secret revealed at the Cova da Iria-Fatima, on 13 July 1917.” I write in obedience to you, my God, who commanded me to do so through his Excellency the Bishop of Leiria and through your most Holy Mother and mine. After the two parts which I have already explained, at the left of Our Lady and a little above, we saw an Angel with a flaming sword in his left hand; flashing, it gave out flames that looked as though they would set the world on fire; but they died out in contact with the splendor that Our Lady radiated towards him from her right hand. Pointing to the earth with his right hand, the Angel cried out in a loud voice: ‘Penance, Penance, Penance!’

As I reflect first on the Angel, I come to the understanding that God has sent a divine ambassador to declare a message to humanity. Therefore, to what the Angel has to say, we must be very attentive and responsive. Jesus repeatedly stated in the Gospels “Amen, Amen I say to you, He who have ears to hear let him hear” that we may be prepared to receive a particular message with great understanding. Let us be attentive and responsive to the Angel's message in its entirety.

The next thing I reflected on is the Angel’s flaming sword at his left hand. In Scripture, the left hand typically represents judgment or punishment as in the flaming sword at the Angel's left hand, while the right hand represents righteousness or blessing as in the splendor that radiated from Our Lady's right hand. The flame represents the work of the Holy Spirit which is purification and the sword represents the Word of God. ‘Penance, Penance, Penance!’ is what God is declaring to humanity. Humanity has sinned gravely against heaven and against God. Our initial reaction to this declaration may be of fear and rightly so because of the gravity of sin committed by humanity – abortion, euthanasia, greed, exploitation of the weak, passiveness and so on. The darkness of man’s heart is being revealed in the light of God’s judgment. I believe that the message and Our Lady’s intervention is an act of Mercy on God’s part. We must attend to and respond to this message of ‘Penance, Penance, Penance!’ as an act of obedience to a merciful God.

Our late Holy Father, Pope John Paul II (JPII) in his document “Reconciliation and Penance” expounds much on sin and its effects on the human soul and the need for reconciliation and penance.  ‘Penance, Penance, Penance!’ such a profound word and yet elusive to the majority for as our late Holy Father, Pope John Paul II has stated, "the concept of penance is very complex". In my understanding, as I have reflected on this document, penance are the acts that bring about conversion. These acts are confession as in the Sacrament, prayer, fasting, acts that mortify the flesh and bring it in line with Divine Will. Penance should lead one to conversion, beginning the process of restoration or reconciling us to God. Because of sin, we have caused division with God, self, man and the created world. Again, penance begins that process of reconciliation. To look at the fruit of reconciliation we may now say that we have obtained that promise of God, namely salvation, the beatific vision.

As you can see, penance begins the work of salvation. Yes, salvation is a gift from God which no man merits but by the shed blood of Christ on the cross. However, Saint Paul states that we must work out our salvation. When we contemplate Christ crucified, we come to the understanding that love calls unto love that is to follow the Beloved. Penance permits us to be crucified with Christ in order to die to the old self and be resurrected with Christ as a new creature radiating the Beloved. To sum this up, penance leads to conversion, and conversion to reconciliation, and reconciliation to salvation, our end goal, life eternal.

One thing is yet missing. “Contrition”. According to the late Holy Father, Pope John Paul II, the essential act of penance, on the part of the penitent, is contrition, a clear and decisive rejection of sin committed, together with resolution not to commit it again. Contrition is therefore the beginning and the heart of conversion or penance. Hence, “upon this contrition of heart depends the truth of penance”. Without contrition, there cannot be true penance or, in our vocation as penitents, true conversion!

Reflecting back on the Angel of Fatima, I see that God is not willing His judgment on humanity but His mercy! He glorifies Himself in this life with His mercy, He will glorify Himself in the next with His judgment. How great is His attribute of patience, patience with a stiff necked people, his very own children. In His mercy He is calling us to reconciliation by way of “Contrition and Penance”. The Angel at Fatima is declaring God’s merciful love to humanity by revealing to us what is required to be saved as a human race -‘Penance, Penance, Penance!’ At some point God will have to act according to His justice. Let us be the remnant that responds in faith, love and obedience. Let us reflect on the gift of contrition and ask our Lord in His mercy to grant us this gift of contrition that we may be true to God and true to our call as Penitents.

“Eternal Father, through the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Immaculate Heart of Mary, grant to us in accord with the riches of your glory contrition of heart that we may be true to you our God and our vocation as penitents. Mercy, Lord, Mercy. Amen”

God Bless. José G (Jose is a First Year Novice with the Confraternity of Penitents)

 

NO GREATER LOVE

As Good as New

I am sure all of us have seen a car that has been in an accident. Its body is dented all over, the windscreen smashed in, the tires punctured, the upholstered seats ripped apart in various places, the steering wheel and gears completely bent out of shape, and in a word, suitable only for metal scrap or the garbage dump. However, under the hand of a skilled motor mechanic, it becomes as good as new, leaving not a scratch, scar or mark to remind its owner of the horrible escapade it had been through.

We have recently commemorated the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ on Easter and are still in the Easter season. When we had begun the holy season of Lent on Ash Wednesday, all of us had come before the Lord in a sorry state, maybe like that car that had been in an accident or even worse. During the forty days of Lent and Holy Week, we placed ourselves under the care of Jesus, our Divine Physician, our Glorious Surgeon. Under His gentle touch, healing presence and compassionate gaze, we underwent a rebirth, a regeneration, a transformation. We died with Him and by His resurrection He has given us a new lease of life. No mark, scar or scratch blemishes us to remind us of what we were before. We have become as good as new. To maintain this new lease of life which we have been given, there are a number of things we need to do every day so that we may remain in the beautiful state in which we have been recreated. What are these?

Jesus promised, "And these signs will accompany those who believe; in my name they will cast out demons; they will speak in new tongues" (Mk 16: 17). We then firstly have to believe in the power of the Risen Christ and that He has truly given us new life by His resurrection from the dead. Just as we try to prevent mud from splashing on our cars by avoiding puddles on the road, we need to drive out the demons who taunt us with flashbacks of our former sinful lives and the pleasures attached to them in a bid to make us indulge in them once again. Let us not be like "the dog that turns back to its own vomit and the sow that is washed only to wallow in mud" (2 Pet 2: 22b). With the power of the Lord, we need to conscientiously steer clear of the puddles (occasions) that lead us into sin and away from the presence of God. We also need to speak in "new tongues," which does not necessarily mean only different languages, but a different type of language. Where we may have been accustomed to cursing, swearing, abusing and using slang, we would now speak the language of love, mercy and compassion.

The words of Paul should ring in our ears, encouraging us to strive towards greater heights of perfection, raise our weary hearts and drooping spirits: "Therefore if anyone is in Christ he/she is a new creation; the old has passed away, the new has come" (2 Cor 5: 17). Regular washing, cleaning, scrubbing and polishing of our car helps maintain its new condition. So also, regular and intimate contact and dialogue with Jesus keeps our relationship alive. Frequent reception of the sacraments, especially those of Reconciliation and the Holy Eucharist, strengthen us in living our new lives to the fullest.

In fact, what we should never forget, but keep at the backs of our minds and in the innermost recesses of our hearts, is that we have been created in the image and likeness of God. We should strive to maintain this image and reflect it to all those whom we come across in our day to day activities. Here Paul's letter to the Ephesians strikes the nail on the head when he asks us to "put on the new man/woman, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness" (Eph 4: 24).

It would, at the same time, be wise to also have a realistic picture of ourselves and not be deluded by building castles in the air or daydreaming. We are human, not angels, made up of flesh and bones, not spirit alone. Due to this, we will always be frail and weak as long as we live on this earth. In spite of our best efforts we are bound to fall from time to time. Just as we give our cars for weekly or monthly servicing, we too need to be serviced by frequenting the sacrament of Reconciliation. The modern trend seems to be not to go for confession to another human being, even though when the priest sits in the confessional, he takes the place of God. However, if we value the immortality of our souls and our relationship with Jesus Christ, we will never let such a trend, and all like it, affect us. Instead we will go for confession at least once a month, if not every week, in order that we may be filled with new life, grace and strength. If we take pains to fulfill regularly all these things necessary for maintaining the new life that Jesus has given us, as I have tried to explain as best I can from my own experience, I am sure we will always remain as good as new.

 Patrick John Ashing, OSB Cam, CFP Affiliate

REFLECTION ON OUR RULE OF LIFE

Constitutions:

XX. APPLICATIONS OF THE RULE OF 1221

PREAMBLE

In keeping with the Preamble of the Rule, here begin the Constitutions of the Continent (those who give up things) Confraternity of Penitents. In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.  

REFLECTION:

The Preamble of the Rule of 1221 reads:

Here begins the Rule of the Continent Brothers and Sisters: In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

The memorial of what is proposed for the Brothers and Sisters of Penance, living in their own homes, begun in the year of our Lord 1221, is as follows.

The penitents in 1221 practiced periods of abstinence from conjugal relations, as do those today who are practicing natural family planning and other natural methods of fertility regulation. Hence, the word "continent" in the original rule referred to this practice. Today the word refers to anyone who gives up any good for the sake of a greater good.

Notice how the Trinity is invoked through the Sign of the Cross right at the beginning of the original Rule of 1221. This was an indication that the penitents were following the Catholic doctrine regarding the Trinity, a doctrine which several groups of heretics called into question. The CFP begins its Constitutions in the same way.

The 1221 Rule then goes on to say that the Rule is what is proposed for the Brothers and Sisters of Penance who are living in their own homes. The Confraternity of Penitents had originally been incorporated as the Brothers and Sisters of Penance but had to legally change the name upon its refounding in 2003. The penitents in 1221 lived in their own homes, as do most penitents in the CFP, but single CFP penitents who qualify may also live in a CFP Community House.

AFFILIATE ACTION

Affiliates can follow the spirit of the Preamble by voluntarily giving up some good for the sake of a greater one. Therefore, while not bound to fast or abstain beyond what the Church requires, Affiliates may wish to incorporate some periods of fast and abstinence into their lives, or adopt other sacrifices, in unity with CFP members and associates, who, by virtue of their living the Rule and Constitutions, are required to make those sacrifices.

 

REFLECTIONS ON THE SAN DAMIANO CRUCIFIX

FINGERS

Christ on the San Damiano Crucifix has long, slender fingers, the sensitive fingers of an artist. For surely Christ, in His creative work, is the Master Artist, painting creation's beauty and color. "All things were made by Him, and without Him nothing has been made," wrote Saint John the Evangelist. From those relaxed and beautiful fingers came molecules and suns, elephants and eagles, earth browns and floral pinks. We look at the San Damiano Crucifix and grieve that our sins have pinned to the cross the Hands that made us. And we are grateful that God's love and mercy surpasses His justice, for the fingers that could have pointed at us in judgment instead beckon us to come close in our repentance. Jesus, we praise You for all You are and all doing in our lives.

POETRY  

My Garden Prayer

While a patient - in a Health Rehab Center, July 25,2007

Sitting quietly, motionless in a quaint,

shady court yard place,

Under overhanging trees, with bushes

and flowers slows down life’s fast pace.

 

Black birds, sparrows, flying from one spot

to another were seeking food.

In the breeze and stillness I was witnessing

a relaxing calm mood.

 

A hanging bird feeder is visited

by each species of birds,

landing on its perches,

Nibbling, peeking, fluttering, seeking,

 

Then they fly away when an intruder,

suspended in the sky,

Wants their turn to eat,

away the bird will fly.

 

The majestic Cardinal, rich red,

with black face, and yellow beak,

Sits on the perch alone,

his safety he will seek.

 

Splish splash, in the birdbath,

a sparrow flutters and

shakes his head, back, and tail.

Cleaned and refreshed

with the water,

into the sky he will sail.

 

Two squirrels, in the distant yard,

interact with all the birds without fear,

Nibbling, peering,

fluttering his tail, seeking.

 

Finally, one squirrel climbs a tall tree

munching on his food aloof.

In a distance, another is seen

running along the edge of a roof.

 

Sitting quietly, motionless,

in a quaint, shady, courtyard place.

Under shading trees, bushes, and flowers,

a smile comes to my face.

 

As if I was being fed with a spiritual food.

In the breeze and stillness,

while I was witnessing

in a relaxing calm mood.

 

I forget for a moment, my pains,

struggles to heal, and loneliness,

Seeing the animals,

sharing this beautiful place there.

 

I am lifted, in Spirit, and my soul,

Nibbles, peeks, flutters, seeks,

and flies to

God’s love of life, and His comfort inside,

for this is my garden prayer.

By Paul Michael P

                  Paul is a Second Year Novice with the Confraternity of Penitents and has a ministry in the CFP of corresponding with inmates. He is also a formator and is beginning a CFP Circle in Bridgewater, Virginia.

CONFRATERNITY PHOTO ALBUM 

First, Second, and Third Order Franciscans in Fort Wayne, Indiana. Pictured above for a special pot luck dinner involving all three Orders are Our Lady, Cause of Our Joy Confraternity of Penitents Chapter (left and center, front), the Poor Sisters of Saint Clare (left rear), and the Franciscan Brothers Minor (rear center and right). Tomara Kern, president of the Fort Wayne penitents, is standing in the very center of the photo.

Father David Mary Engo (center), founder of the Franciscan Brothers Minor, stands with Brother Fidelis Mary (Patrick Hamor), Novice (left), and Brother Anthony Cain, Postulant (right). Both Brother Fidelis and Brother Anthony had lived at the Confraternity of Penitents' Men's Community House for several months before discerning a vocation to the friars. Brother Fidelis, along with four other friars of his Order, will be entering the seminary to study for the priesthood in May.  Please pray for these fine men.

 

HUMOR

 

Love is . . .

'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.'
Mary Ann - age 4

'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
Lauren - age 4

'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' Karen - age 7

You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
Jessica - age 8
 


 

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"You shall love the Lord your God with your whole heart, with your whole soul, and with all your mind, (and) you shall love your neighbor as yourself." (Matthew 22:37-38)

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